What is Selective Mutism?
Selective mutism is an anxiety-related disorder where a person, most commonly a child, is unable to speak in certain social situations despite being able to speak normally in other settings, such as at home with family. It is not caused by a speech or language problem, but by extreme anxiety and fear of speaking in specific environments.
This condition typically appears in early childhood and can interfere with academic, social, and emotional development if left untreated.

What Are the Symptoms of Selective Mutism?
- Consistent failure to speak in certain settings (e.g., school)
- Normal speech at home or in familiar environments
- Shyness, social withdrawal, or fear of embarrassment
- Avoidance of eye contact or social interaction
- Tendency to freeze or become expressionless in feared settings
- Difficulty in performing activities that require speaking
What Causes Selective Mutism?
The exact cause is not fully understood, but contributing factors include:
- Social anxiety disorder or other anxiety conditions
- Family history of anxiety or extreme shyness
- Traumatic or stressful events (in some cases)
- Temperamental traits like behavioral inhibition
- Speech or language delays that may increase anxiety
How is Selective Mutism Diagnosed?
Diagnosis is usually made by a psychologist, psychiatrist, or speech-language pathologist based on:
- Detailed medical and developmental history
- Observations of the child’s behavior in different environments
- Ruling out speech or language disorders
- Duration of symptoms (must persist for at least one month, not limited to the first month of school)
How is Selective Mutism Treated?
Treatment aims to reduce anxiety and gradually increase communication in feared settings.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps children manage anxiety and build confidence
- Behavioral techniques: Positive reinforcement and gradual exposure to speaking situations
- Family therapy or parent training: Teaches supportive communication strategies at home
- Speech therapy: If speech or language delays are also present
- Medication: In some cases, anti-anxiety medications may be prescribed (especially if therapy alone is not enough)
What Are the Complications of Selective Mutism?
- Social isolation
- Academic difficulties
- Low self-esteem or depression
- Difficulty in building relationships
- Ongoing anxiety disorders into adolescence or adulthood

How Can You Support a Child with Selective Mutism?
- Avoid pressuring the child to speak
- Provide a supportive, patient, and non-judgmental environment
- Encourage social interaction without focusing on speech
- Work closely with teachers and therapists
- Celebrate small steps in progress
When Should You Seek Help?
- If a child speaks normally at home but not in other settings for more than a month
- If the condition affects learning, socializing, or daily activities
- If the child shows signs of severe anxiety or emotional distress


